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		<title>By: Brighid</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92443</link>
		<dc:creator>Brighid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jun 2012 15:14:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All due respect, WhiteCoat, I&#039;m not sure you really would react that way if it had been your child. I think your reaction would be more nuanced. You would know that your child was not really like this, that his or her participation was a horrible aberration rather than a character flaw.

People occasionally act totally out of character. That&#039;s why, after some terrible crime has been committed, you so often see the friend, neighbor or family member telling the reporter, &quot;I had no idea. This is not the person I knew at all.&quot;

Even the monitor herself said these were not bad kids.

What they did wrong has become so public, so humiliating, that they need some form of punishment that will let them feel they have atoned and can move on with their lives, hopefully having learned a lesson in not falling victim to mob rule. It should certainly begin with a sincere apology to the victim.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All due respect, WhiteCoat, I&#8217;m not sure you really would react that way if it had been your child. I think your reaction would be more nuanced. You would know that your child was not really like this, that his or her participation was a horrible aberration rather than a character flaw.</p>
<p>People occasionally act totally out of character. That&#8217;s why, after some terrible crime has been committed, you so often see the friend, neighbor or family member telling the reporter, &#8220;I had no idea. This is not the person I knew at all.&#8221;</p>
<p>Even the monitor herself said these were not bad kids.</p>
<p>What they did wrong has become so public, so humiliating, that they need some form of punishment that will let them feel they have atoned and can move on with their lives, hopefully having learned a lesson in not falling victim to mob rule. It should certainly begin with a sincere apology to the victim.</p>
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		<title>By: Guiac</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92346</link>
		<dc:creator>Guiac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jun 2012 20:22:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Its difficult to teach courage.  The adults I meet act like sheep and I know I said and did some mean spirited things in Middle School to go along with the crowd.  The last thing anyone wants at that age is to be different.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its difficult to teach courage.  The adults I meet act like sheep and I know I said and did some mean spirited things in Middle School to go along with the crowd.  The last thing anyone wants at that age is to be different.</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Martel</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92326</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Martel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jun 2012 15:30:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You know, I agree completely with your assessment of the kids and their behavior...

but, I keep thinking why is this woman a bus monitor since obviously she doesn&#039;t have any sort of aptitude for it. I wonder how many other kids on that bus had to go through bullying because that woman was sitting/cowering in her seat doing nothing.  She definately didn&#039;t have control of that bus or the kids on it.  Find something else for her to do.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You know, I agree completely with your assessment of the kids and their behavior&#8230;</p>
<p>but, I keep thinking why is this woman a bus monitor since obviously she doesn&#8217;t have any sort of aptitude for it. I wonder how many other kids on that bus had to go through bullying because that woman was sitting/cowering in her seat doing nothing.  She definately didn&#8217;t have control of that bus or the kids on it.  Find something else for her to do.</p>
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		<title>By: tracy</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92120</link>
		<dc:creator>tracy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 15:40:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i couldn&#039;t watch the whole video. It was just too heartbreaking.  Any kind of bullying is UNACCEPTABLE!!!!!!!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i couldn&#8217;t watch the whole video. It was just too heartbreaking.  Any kind of bullying is UNACCEPTABLE!!!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: defendUSA</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92100</link>
		<dc:creator>defendUSA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 13:42:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[David...
You must not have children or you are naive, to put it simply. I have four children. And I do not tolerate any kind of disrespectful behavior towards adults and elders, especially. When I was younger, my father would blister my behind if I raised a hand or used my smart mouth to assail anyone. 

When I read that the father of one of the bullies said his son has suffered enough, I find it laughable. How many days and nights will the woman they bullied have to hear those words in her head and she did nothing? 
Those kids deserve every thought and action that comes their way and so do the parents for MY assumption that they were willfully ignorant to the behaviors of their children. No kid becomes a bully and stays that way unless they repeatedly get away with it, period.
The way that the majority of educators must approach children is all about political correctness and you dare say they need to be empowered? When will the parents ever be held responsible over an educator or bus monitor for God&#039;s sake? 
WC is right on.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David&#8230;<br />
You must not have children or you are naive, to put it simply. I have four children. And I do not tolerate any kind of disrespectful behavior towards adults and elders, especially. When I was younger, my father would blister my behind if I raised a hand or used my smart mouth to assail anyone. </p>
<p>When I read that the father of one of the bullies said his son has suffered enough, I find it laughable. How many days and nights will the woman they bullied have to hear those words in her head and she did nothing?<br />
Those kids deserve every thought and action that comes their way and so do the parents for MY assumption that they were willfully ignorant to the behaviors of their children. No kid becomes a bully and stays that way unless they repeatedly get away with it, period.<br />
The way that the majority of educators must approach children is all about political correctness and you dare say they need to be empowered? When will the parents ever be held responsible over an educator or bus monitor for God&#8217;s sake?<br />
WC is right on.</p>
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		<title>By: RSDS</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92074</link>
		<dc:creator>RSDS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 11:11:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We should take a lesson from Singapore. All of the bullies on the bus should receive a public caning.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We should take a lesson from Singapore. All of the bullies on the bus should receive a public caning.</p>
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		<title>By: response</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-92061</link>
		<dc:creator>response</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 09:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think the research administrator who bullied out my research coordinators should cease and the research coordinators should have an opportunity to be reinstated.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the research administrator who bullied out my research coordinators should cease and the research coordinators should have an opportunity to be reinstated.</p>
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		<title>By: Mingle</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-91993</link>
		<dc:creator>Mingle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 02:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No, I don&#039;t think it&#039;s too harsh.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s too harsh.</p>
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		<title>By: Jim</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-91990</link>
		<dc:creator>Jim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 01:53:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A bully will always &quot;apologize&quot; to their victim for the benefit of an authority figure. They are manipulative. The only thing having the bus monitor over for dinner would do is give the bully another chance to hurt their victim.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A bully will always &#8220;apologize&#8221; to their victim for the benefit of an authority figure. They are manipulative. The only thing having the bus monitor over for dinner would do is give the bully another chance to hurt their victim.</p>
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		<title>By: DavidHowardOjai</title>
		<link>http://www.epmonthly.com/whitecoat/2012/06/bullying-a-bus-monitor/#comment-91983</link>
		<dc:creator>DavidHowardOjai</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jun 2012 01:03:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes, too harsh. I agree that there should be consequences, but they shouldn&#039;t be punitive, much less humiliating. Amends must be made to the victim, and the children AND parents should be educated and rehabilitated. The key, however, is prevention, prevention, prevention. 

Also, who was responsible for the training and safety of the monitor on the bus? School district does not get off the hook. She should have been empowered to have zero tolerance for abuse, and someone should have stepped in way before the video went viral.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, too harsh. I agree that there should be consequences, but they shouldn&#8217;t be punitive, much less humiliating. Amends must be made to the victim, and the children AND parents should be educated and rehabilitated. The key, however, is prevention, prevention, prevention. </p>
<p>Also, who was responsible for the training and safety of the monitor on the bus? School district does not get off the hook. She should have been empowered to have zero tolerance for abuse, and someone should have stepped in way before the video went viral.</p>
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